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Tuesday, January 29, 2019
8 Powerful motivational quotes to inspire you to be successful.
Motivational quotes about success
If you don't believe in yourself, nobody will. M.J.
Success begins with small steps of actions, not merely movies of exaggerated imagination. M.J.
The ability to dream about your success must be compatible with your ability to take the FIRST action. M.J.
Books and movies about success can always help us but they mean nothing if small actions are absent. M.J.
Waiting is for people who put too much of their trust on luck while doing is for people who believe that every big tree begins with the smallest seed with lots of sweat. M.J.
Imagination about success will always be free but reality requires us to sacrifice our free time. M.J.
Mistakes will always be there to stop us but mistakes cannot stop us if we consider mistakes as the unlocked gates in which we keep the main keys. M.J.
Tomorrow is just a beautiful illusion to keep us lying on the bed of our dearest comfort zone. M.J.
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Wednesday, January 23, 2019
How to deal with fear effectively
Treat fear as a friend, heavenly message, good sign or an important reminder.
Fear can either build or break us. Fear can be good if we consider fear as a part of human nature. However, if try to bury, avoid or deny the existence of fear in our lives, I believe we will miss lots of opportunities to improve ourselves.
In general, there are many things we are afraid of. Some could be natural while some are man made.
Let us begin with the first type of fear which is the fear of losing our loved ones. This fear may cause unnecessary worries, perceptions, bad dreams, wrong decisions and etc. However, if we use the fear of losing our loved ones wisely, we will be able to avoid unnecessary regrets. If we really fear losing our loved ones, start focusing on having QUALITY TIME with them. Words are never enough. Actions make the real differences.
The second type of fear is the fear of being a failure before you reach 30. Some people begin to enjoy success when they are 50, 60 or more while some have started to enjoy success even before they were born. On the other hand, failure and success are brothers. Failure is just like the older brother as without failure, success will never exist. This fear of failure is actually good because it helps us to be prepared. In other words, it helps us to focus on our priorities especially the skills and knowledge that we should have before we reach thirty.
The third type of fear is the fear of not getting married or the fear of loneliness. Which one do you want in your life? Get married to the wrong ones or let time decide about your destiny while enjoying your own company? Is it worth it to sacrifice your own happiness by marrying someone our of desperation which is driven by the fear of loneliness?
There any many types of fear in this life. I believe each of us has our own fear. Fear will always be a part of our lives. We can never delete fear as fear is an abstract subject which has to be dealt with faith and positive thinking as fear is indeed is the voice within which acts like a alarm button to help us to be prepared. However, if we fail to respond to that fear, fear will become gardens in our minds and hearts.
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Monday, January 14, 2019
Rejection is a powerful motivation
Rejection is a powerful motivation
by Mani Jack
15/1/2019
There
are many successful people today who were produced by the power of rejection
such as Sylvester Stallone (actor, movie director and producer), Arnold Schwarzenegger (actor, World Champion bodybuilder), J.K Rowling (author of Harry Porter) and
Jack Ma (founder of Alibaba). These people were exceptionally emotionally very strong
because they didn’t choose to give up when life pushed them around and away. They choose to be patient, improve themselves
and turned their stubbornness into a powerful determination.
Let us
play with the most critical question. Can this world say yes to everything that
we want? Does this world or this life work that way? If your answer is no, we
should do something about our children or the young generation. We have to slap
them early with this fact of life in order to build their emotional intelligence
every time life slaps them in the future.
What
should parents do to help their children cope with the pain of rejection?
Parents love to give. I understand that. Some people are
generous with time while some are generous with gifts. However, parents must
learn to say no sometimes even though they have the financial power to say yes
in order to help the children feel the pain of rejection through the word “NO”
so that they will understand the ugly side of life early, not to torture them
but to build their emotional strength.
What
should teachers do to help the students cope with the pain of rejection?
The
world demands perfection no matter how imperfect we are. Sometimes the students
submit an assignment that does not meet the quality that the teacher has always
expected from his or her students. The teacher must reject the poor quality in
a polite and positive manner and gets the student to redo and improve the
quality of his or her work so that the students can learn to respond positively
when his or her work is rejected. When he becomes an employee or a leader in
the future, the attitude of challenging himself or herself to give the best
quality may become a habit.
In conclusion, the failure to
deal with rejection positively has caused many lives to suffer from depression.
Therefore, helping the young ones to face rejection early may save them from
depression in the future. We can’t see tomorrow but there must something that
we can do every day no matter how small it is because small deeds will become
history when they are done continuously.
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Saturday, January 12, 2019
Problems are blessing in disguise
Are you giving up?
Don't Give Up.
If you feel like giving up, perhaps this motivational book could help you restart your life.
Before this, I always wondered why God made me walk on those difficult roads as every challenge almost tore my life and my family apart. I thought I was unlucky. As time went by, I was glad that I was given a valuable opportunity to taste all of those bittersweet experiences because they made me emotionally and spiritually strong and wiser. I believe that one of the main reasons why God made me experience all of those thorny paths is because perhaps God wants me to share those life lessons with others in order to help them not to give up when life challenges them to the maximum. I hope this book will motivate the readers and give them enough light and hope to believe that every obstacle is indeed a blessing in disguise if we are willing to kneel and and learn because life itself is a novel in which you are its best writer.
The power of determination
The power of determination
LIFE LESSONS ON DETERMINATION
MY FIRST LESSON ABOUT LIFE
In life, nobody really wants to know about your failure. They just want to know about your success story. Even if they know, you are the only one who could really feel the pain of the challenges. M.J.
I started to learn about life when I was 12 years old. In other words, I began to see this life from a different perspective in 1991........
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Turning points in life are meant to make us stronger
Turning points in life are meant to make us stronger
THE BEAUTY OF TURNING POINTS IN LIFE
Sometimes we find wisdom in the darkest place. M.J.
As I did extremely very well in my primary school, I was offered to continue my study at a boarding school which was considered as one of the best schools in the state....
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Every victory requires a sacrifice
EVERY VICTORY REQUIRES A SACRIFICE
If you refuse to sacrifice, you will never succeed.
If we always choose to plant the best seeds, no matter how long it may take, the seeds will always bear the sweetest fruits. M.J.
When I worked as a part-time waiter, I always came home late. Most of the time I would reach home at one or two o'clock in the morning as we had to clean the ballroom when the function was over.......
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Good friends and family are the keys to happiness
When friends become your family
SOMETIMES STRANGERS BECOME YOUR FAMILY
Good deeds are magical because the outcome will always go against your first judgement. M.J.
After I had finished my form 6, I was excited to continue my study. I filled in the form and quickly wrote my first two choices. While filling in the form, my sister approached me. She advised me to postpone my study as she was still doing her diploma.....
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You are a man if you can keep your promise
KEEP YOUR PROMISE
You are a man if you can keep your promise
Everyone can make promises but only a few can really keep their words because every promise is wrapped with a huge responsibility. M.J.
When I got the offer to continue my study at the local university, I knew that was an impossible mission and I also knew that the chance to fail was higher than any skies because as long financial support was concerned, I had to deal with uncertainties all by myself. ...
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Your friends determine the quality of your life
Choose your friends wisely
By Mani Jack
I came across one very beautiful quote when I was 19 years old. That day, I went to a bookstore and found this one small book. That book was a collection of beautiful and motivational quotes from world famous people. The quote goes like this.
God will choose your relatives but you have to choose your own friends.
It took me quite some time to understand the quote because the meaning was very deep. I had to go through many stages of life before I could finally understand the very meaning of that meaningful quote.
Sometimes people asked me this question. “How to find a good friend?”
My answer has always been very simple. You have to learn to be a good friend first because when you learn to be a good friend, you will find out the good and the dark sides of the people you meet.
How to find a good friend?
When he is unusually nice with you, you must find out why because a good friend is nice without having any other motives.
When he receives something good in life, does he say thank you or continue to whine? That indicates ungratefulness. When he is ungrateful, you will have to listen to his whining forever. That is not good for your friendship because he will not be able to appreciate the good things that you do for him. On the other hand, a person who is not grateful tends to be jealous of others. That means you are sleeping with an enemy.
How does he react when he knows that you receive good news? Congratulations or long silence?
What does he say when you fail in certain area of your life? Insult or words of encouragement?
Is he sensitive to your long silence? Can he read your silence? Good friends can read all of these signs.
In life, we will meet many types of people but only a few will stay as good friends. If you find them, value them continuously because friendship is fragile because you are basically not biologically connected.
In conclusion, if you learn to be a good friend first, you will be emotionally wounded first because life will show you the best in the first chapter because life wants you to explore, learn and experience.
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hunger for knowledge is the key to success
Learn something new every day
By Mani Jack
I have met many people who always say that they already know everything. Is it possible to strongly say that we already know everything? Are we sure that what was true yesterday will remain true today?
As the matter of fact, researches are done continuously and findings of these researches have been published continuous to support the previous research or to deny the previous research.
What if there are better ways to motivate ourselves instead of yoga and positive thinking?
What if there are better ways to cure cancer instead of the present drugs and machines?
What if there are better ways to lose weight instead of jogging and cycling?
What if there are better ways to heal the broken hearts instead of listening to music and hanging out with friends and family members?
What if there are better ways to market our products instead of Google Adwords and Facebook ads?
What if there are better ways to be a millionaire instead of the traditional investment portfolio?
We are actually very lucky today because internet has made the world smaller in which we can connect to other people from any parts of of the world. In other words, it is easier for us to learn from each other. Perhaps, others may have a better or effective way to deal with what we are dealing with today. Their experiences and expertise might help us to be a better person or a better worker, leader, parent and etc.
In conclusion, learning something new every day is another form of self-help because it is a journey to find somebody who might experience what you are experiencing now or what you have been experiencing. Reading or watching videos which are related to your present challenges, goals or plans might help you to achieve what you always want to achieve sooner that you can think of or perhaps you will find the solution to your problems.
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We can't change what has happened but we can always change our responses.
Be open to unexpected incident or news
By Mani Jack
Wise man says, if you cant change the wind, change your sail. Wise man also says, if you can’t fight them, join them. Wise man also says, live with the flow of the river of life because you may never know what it brings.
In life, we always expect things to be good, perfect, nice and etc. It it never wrong to expect good thing. However, real life does not work that way.
Sometimes we lose somebody when we are not ready. Sometimes the government makes decision which is against our expectation. Sometimes, we get bad news instead of good news. Sometimes we get bad product after paying for a heavy price. Sometimes the internet is not working when we need internet connection the most. Sometimes the power supply is out when we are watching our favourite movies. Sometimes the food that we want the most is finished the time we reach the counter.
That is life whether we like it or not. No matter how stubborn we are, that is the fact of life. Sometimes life is on your side and sometimes life is against you.
It takes time to adapt to this fact of life. Even adult has problems adapting to this fact. How do we deal with this?
There is only one way to deal with this. We can always change the way we respond to these unexpected circumstances because we have to accept the fact that we actually have NO POWER to control everything. We only have the power to control our mental, emotional, physical and spiritual responses.
If we pray to God to change this fact of life, I believe that God will slam the door of heaven. I know it is not easy. I have never said that would as easy as ABC. But we can always learn to manage our responses because or ability to manage these responses will help to protect us and prevent us from doing things which might worsen the current situation.
Based on my experiences, the most practical way to deal with this is through prayer because I always believe that there must be a superior energy that governs this whole universe.
What should we say in the prayer?
Perhaps, we should say “Oh God, I may look strong in the eyes of others but I am weak and helpless. Help me to face every challenge that I will face today positively. Please bless everything that I am going to do today.”
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