Ask yourself these questions before you get married

Regrets can be avoided if our minds are stronger than the hearts

By Mani Jack, M.J.

Some people think that marriage is all about settling down or the end of a particular journey. Actually, marriage is a fresh beginning because when you are married, you will be exposed to so many types of challenges which are thrown at you at different speeds from all sides. If both of you are not prepared, giving up will be the common choice. If some people are looking for perfection in marriage, it does not exist. But if you define that perfection based on your own perspective without hurting the one you love, that should be fine. I believe, that getting married Is one of the biggest decisions in one’s life because if you were to find out that you are married to the wrong one or the one who is not suitable for you, it will affect everyone indirectly and indirectly if you study the 40 questions that I have written below.

1. Why do you want to get married?

2. Have you ever prayed to God or the universe many times to guide your instinct so that you can make a final decision?

3. Have you learned enough lessons from the marriage of your own parents?

4. If you are from a broken family, have you completely forgiven your past?

5. Do you have chemistry with her?

6. Are you sure that she really loves you or just like you or admire you?

7. Have you listened to your instinct well?

8. Do you have enough evidence to prove that she is comfortable with your presence?

9. How much do you know about her?

10. Has she been her true self when she is with you?

11. Have you asked her enough questions about she wants to marry you too?

12. Has she ever given up on you just because of small matters or petty issues?

13. Has she ever used the word “boring” to describe you or your relationship?

14. Has she ever tried to change you based on a man that she has been thinking of or does she only focus on the good things about you and enjoy supporting your dreams?

15. Is she proud of you?

16. Is she emotionally sensitive when she is far away from you due to missing you?

17. Does she pay full attention to you when you are together?

18. Do you know all of her weaknesses?

19. Can you accept her weaknesses for the rest of your life?

20. Do you know the most special thing about her?

21. Have she ever told ou that she could not live without you?

22. Does she show lots of excitement every time you see her or every time you text her?  

23. Is it because of desperation, poverty or loneliness?

24. Are you being being forced by your parents?

25. Is it because all of your friends are married?

26. Are you mentally, emotionally, spiritually, socially and financially prepared?

27. Have you improved your financial intelligence?

28. Have you learned about woman?

29. Have you learned about parenting skills?

30. Have you evaluated your emotional intelligence?

31.  Do you know how to manage stress?

32. Have you spent enough time with her family?

33. How much do you know about her family?

34. Can you adapt to the different characters of her family members?

35. Have you ever imagined living with her for the rest of your life with all of her strengths and weaknesses?

36. Do you love children or does she love children?

37. Have you spent enough time with her to know almost everything about her?

38. Have both of you argued over the many differences that you have?

39. Did both of you end the arguments positively or destructively?

40. As regrets stay with us forever, will you be willing to be fully responsible for that decision?

….Thank you for reading…..

….…Good luck..May God Bless Your Decision……..

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